I was in a relationship for a while after my divorce with a wonderful man. I thought we had it all, we lived together, had 2 dogs and talk about marriage ceremony and kids..etc. I left for a trip of 6 days to visit my family, while being away we talk 4 times a day and everythng was fine. When I returned he told me that the fact of being alone for the 6 days got him very confuse and he does not know anymore his feelings towards me, his feelings towards our relationship and that he could not even tell me if we could have a future together, because he wasn't sure anymore if I was the one for him. I got so devasted. He is seeking help in order to find out why he has such issues with committment and have fear of us, of the live we have been living. He moved out and we broke up, he does not want me to be waiting on him, because he is not sure of the results and does not want to mis lead me in anything. What should I do? still have faith or just moved on? still hold on or let go? I am so confused.

Thank you

Focus on yourself- Your day to day responsibilities and even more so your needs!  Every time a thought about "why" he's doing this or "what" has he figured out arises ask or tell the thought to leave or see a STOP sign that stops those thoughts.  These are not your issues to ponder or find answers too.  I've been there and they lead to nowhere. 
   But you can take yourself and your life somewhere by devoting your thoughts and energy to building the life you need.  Pick 2 or 3 things you want in your life- qualities (appreciation, respect, free time, etc...) or activities- and focus your energy and thoughts on making these a reality.  Every time thoughts of him come in refocus on these.  Try it for a week- it's a lot more fun than looping thoughts about him- unless you prefer the pain.