Tammy,
I want to acknowledge you for doing deep internal work so that you can clear space to allow more of what you want into your life. Wow!
Thank you for sharing your experiences so far. Many people feel that their transformations are minimal compared to others, but many times it's simply that the transformation is gradual.
When we show up empowered, we allow all kinds of people and experiences in our lives. Because it feels natural to show up empowered, sometimes we don't even notice that we're showing up differently than we used to.
There's a discusion forum specifically for people to share their experiences of the Shadow Process Workshop. It says Fall 2007, but anyone is welcome to share there.
Here's the link:
http://www.theglobalheart.org/component/option,com_smf/Itemid,3/board,25.0/Rita Wodard
www.theglobalheart.org/ritawoodard